Monday, May 26, 2008

weird stares..

I showed off my diamond earrings that I got for mother's day. I got a lot of praise for the beautiful sparklers in my ears, but I also got some weird stares too. I felt like those stares were saying "why do you get a mother's day gift if your child is dead".
Deceased or not, my child was here and I birthed him and held him and kissed him and bathed him and changed his diaper and sang to him. I picked out his casket, choose the clothes he will wear forever, and helped to write his eulogy.
I celebrate mother's day because I *AM* a mother.
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3 comments:

Phoenix Rising said...

damn right sister!

so, can your hubby talk to my hubby about diamond earrings?!?! :-)

Clarissa said...

You are certain about that!

We are all mother's - even if our children are angels.

And Charlie has a great mom! Bring on the bling :)

Anonymous said...

Hey! You are a mommy and show those off as your present for being such a great mommy with pride!

People stare or look at you weird, you give it RIGHT BACK!!!!